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Why skinny black males date obese white women?

In majority of cases, skinny black men who date obese white women are usually “struggling in life”, meaning they are either unemployed, never worked, was previously incarcerated, have a chemical dependency, insecure with their own physical appearance, need a place to live or money, find that black women aren’t attracted to them, the list goes on. These men usually confess white women are much easier to get and treats them the way they like. Not just any white woman but an obese white woman. Why? When they are down on their luck they tend to go after what they feel or know will not reject them. Unlike many black women who would turn away a black male who doesn’t have his life together or would tell a black male to “Get your black ass up and go get a job”, most white women will accept them, go to work and provide for him. These men claim that white women usually won’t say anything just allow them to do what they want and do anything to please them.

skinny black male with fat white woman

Why do obese white women date black men?

White women love white men, but they also need love and when their own race of men isn’t attracted to them, they tend to date outside their race. White men have higher standards when choosing a woman than most black men. Majority of white men prefer their women slender and even if the white woman is unattractive but slender, he would choose her over a more attractive obese white woman. Black men on the other hand, will date a woman with meat on her bones but usually if black males circumstances were better they would not date an obese white woman, and in many cases not even an obese black woman. All women regardless of their race want to be loved, but if your own race of men doesn’t want you, you go to what will accept you. This is the mentality for many white women who date black men usually because they are not the wanted “stock” within their own race.

In a way both parties are “using” or “settling” for each other, and maybe it all works out for the best. Regardless of a person’s circumstance no one should never use nor settle for someone just to have someone. Read “Women who can’t be alone” or “Unemployed with no benefits”



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  1. I can see in some cases what the author is saying, BUT, there are some unchecked assumptions here that aren’t totally true. 1. the idea that white men have “higher” standards. They have DIFFERENT standards. Modern white culture has recently changed in the last 100 yrs or so-do to rise of media- to value skinny women as a higher standard. Before this, heavy women were seen a healthy and more attractive by white people too! Many black men do not want a skinny girl, and place a higher value on women with meat on her, thick, “fat ass” (as a compliment), etc from a sexual and aesthetic view, not because they think she has low self esteem, but because they think thats hotter. I would conjecture that these black men who value weight would prefer ANY woman the white media considers “overweight/obese” rather than a skinny woman, if all other things being the same. I have heard men say that skinny women look unhealthy/unattractive to them and the overweight woman IS their higher standard. Perhaps their natural attraction to women is less “colonized” by white media than white mens are.
    Another thing is the idea that it is wrong to settle with someone “in your league”. Maybe black skinny men are not the media ideal either expected to look more thick/muscular/athletic. MOST people period tend to date those who share their level of cultural judgement of attractiveness. It doesn’t have to mean they are settling or using each other. That would imply if we are not all dating models or athletes we are all settling.

  2. It’s sad if anyone believe this . Color is never a factor… Size is..
    Some people follow the stereotypes and date a white woman and thinking they can have their way .. Who knows she just may let you.
    Date all races to see who you really like ..

  3. Its not that the article is bullshit it just doesn’t apply to you, or maybe it does who knows. There are plenty of black men who are down on their luck using fat white and black women. Especially black men who have felons, in prison, broke, unemployed, and like the article says unattractive ones that black women don’t want. It is also very true that white men have higher standards when selecting women. We don’t want a obese woman which is why you may find majority of white men who even date black women with a thinner more attractive black woman. Black men accept the lower class white women the ones a white man with any dignity wouldn’t dare take home. Bottom line be with who you want and fuck others opinions.

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